Rising Voices: Why Gen Z Is Not Weak

Gen Z grew up under a chorus of criticism, yet they continue to rise, adapt, and push forward. It’s a pity that some still don’t see it, especially those who should be keeping them safe. Instead of belittling them, leaders and elders should be lifting them up, recognizing their strength, and giving them the space to thrive.

But why is it that so many still insist on calling them weak? Social media is a shared space where generations collide, and older users often raise their eyebrows at what the youth post. Yet some of the harshest comments don’t even come from Gen Z. They are labeled “weak” simply because they choose to be authentic about their feelings, something that the older generations struggle to understand. But honesty is not weakness; it is courage in a world that has changed a million times over.

It’s tempting to blame the parents, but doing so would be unfair. Many have chosen to learn, unlearn, and embrace changes that often result in raising confident and courageous children prepared for today’s world. Yet some parents fall into patterns of narcissism or emotional abuse, leaving their children isolated, insecure, or trapped in cycles of harm.

Parents undeniably shape the environment in which the youth grow. Instead of trying to control every detail, they must first keep themselves in check. Sharing differences between generations is not a crime, but understanding and accepting change is the real responsibility.

Robin Padilla’s remarks calling the youth “weak” ignited nationwide debate.

With all the awareness and campaigns surrounding mental health, it was shocking to hear such words from a leader expected to safeguard people’s well-being. Media coverage amplified the controversy by spotlighting the most provocative soundbites, though his full remarks hinted at genuine concern.

Still, intention does not erase impact. As a figure admired by the masses through his long showbusiness career, his words carry weight. He recalled, “natuto kami sa kalsada,” yet not every child grows up in the streets, and parents often protect their children from such dangers. Those who did grow up in the streets and emerged as respectable, educated individuals deserve recognition, but their experience should not be used to invalidate the authenticity of today’s youth.

The senate hearing was meant to focus on safeguarding children on social media. With Meta’s regional policy head present, it was the perfect opportunity to push for stronger regulations that could help young users cope with harmful content, cyberbullying, and other negative effects. Yet instead of offering constructive suggestions, Padilla’s remarks shifted the spotlight away from solutions, leaving the impression that he was victim-blaming the youth and dismissing their struggles.

So what should we take away from this moment? Every generation of youth has faced its own battles. Today, Gen Z and those who follow are striving to make a difference, both in reality and online. If we truly want to secure a better future for our children, we must stop demonizing what they feel, think, and say. We don’t have to agree with everything, but they need our guidance and support. They will become excellent leaders if we guide them with compassion, free of hate, anger, prejudice, and judgment.